Scammers are becoming more convincing by pretending to be some of the people we trust the most, namely our loved ones and members of the military community. These imposter scams rely on urgency, emotion, and authority to push victims into acting quickly, often before they have time to verify what is really happening.
Imposter Scams Targeting the Military Community

Service members, veterans, and their families are frequently targeted because scammers know the military community is associated with government benefits, steady income, and a strong sense of trust in authority. Fraudsters may pose as service members or as representatives of trusted organizations connected to military life.
In some cases, scammers pretend to be a deployed loved one who has been injured, arrested, or stranded overseas and urgently needs financial help. Others claim to be calling from the Department of Veterans Affairs or another official agency, warning that benefits will be suspended unless personal information or payment is provided right away.
Scammers also operate heavily online, using stolen photos and real service member details to create fake profiles on social media or dating platforms. These imposters often build trust over time before asking for money or sensitive information, sometimes under the guise of a romance or friendship.
A common thread in all of these scenarios is the pressure they put on their targets. Victims are often told the situation is confidential, time sensitive, or too complicated to verify. Requests for payment frequently involve gift cards, wire transfers, or payment apps, which are difficult to trace or recover.
The Grandparent Scam
Another emotionally charged imposter scam is the grandparent scam. In this scenario, scammers contact older adults pretending to be a grandchild or someone calling on the grandchild’s behalf. The call usually begins with a vague statement such as “It’s me, I need help,” encouraging the grandparent to fill in the name. Once the scammer has that detail, they describe a fabricated emergency, such as an arrest, car accident, or travel problem. Often, a second imposter joins the call pretending to be a lawyer, police officer, or court official. The grandparent is instructed to send money immediately to resolve the situation for their grandchild and is asked not to tell anyone else. Newer versions of this scam may use caller ID spoofing or even artificial intelligence to clone a loved one’s voice, making the call sound especially convincing.
Warning Signs to Watch For
While these scams may look and sound believable, there are common red flags that are indicators that a scam attempt is happening, including:
- Urgent requests for money paired with secrecy
- Pressure to act immediately without time to verify
- Requests for payment through gift cards, wire transfers, cash pickups, or payment apps
- Refusal to allow callbacks or outside confirmation
- Emotional manipulation designed to trigger fear or panic
Legitimate organizations and authorities do not demand payment in these ways, and they will never discourage you from verifying information.
Steps to Protect Yourself and Your Loved Ones
The most important step is to slow down. Scammers rely on panic to succeed. If you receive an unexpected call about an emergency, hang up and contact the family member directly using a phone number you already have. If that is not possible, reach out to another trusted relative or friend to confirm the situation.
Families may also consider establishing a shared verification question or code word that can quickly confirm whether an emergency is real. Remember that it is always okay to pause, ask questions, and seek help. Taking a moment to verify information can stop a scam in its tracks.
If you suspect a scam or have already been contacted, report it right away at https://reportfraud.ftc.gov. Speaking up helps protect you and can prevent others from becoming victims.